
Counselling Appointments
Counselling appointments are 50 minutes.
It is normal to feel anxious about your first appointment, especially if counselling is a new experience for you. In your first appointment, we will focus on getting to know you, gather background information, and understand the reasons you’ve come to therapy and what your goals you wish to achieve through therapy. The first appointment also gives you a chance to decide whether therapy is right for you, and whether your psychologist is a good fit. You may also be asked to complete a number of questionnaires to help me understand your relevant history.
Follow up sessions will then focus on developing helpful coping strategies and interventions that aim at improving your mental health and wellbeing. All information discussed during counselling is private and confidential. There are some limits to confidentiality, and I will discuss this with you during the first session if this applies.
Psychological therapy generally has a beginning, middle, and end, and usually lasts for between 4 and 15 sessions. Some people find weekly or fortnightly sessions are required; however, this is tailored to you and your specific needs. Goals are regularly discussed, and we regularly review how we’re doing in meeting your needs and goals.
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Help is available for a range of areas that include, but not limited to:
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Addiction disorders, also known as substance use disorders, are chronic conditions characterised by the compulsive and uncontrollable use of substances despite negative consequences. It involves a complex interplay of genetic, environmental, and psychological factors. Substance addiction can involve various substances such as alcohol, drugs (both illicit and prescription), and even behaviours like gambling or video gaming. Individuals with addiction disorders often experience strong cravings, a loss of control over their substance use, and may prioritise obtaining and using the substance over other aspects of their life. Addiction can have severe physical, mental, and social consequences, including health problems, strained relationships, and legal issues. Treatment for addiction typically involves a combination of therapy, support groups, and sometimes medication, tailored to the individual's needs. Recovery from addiction is a lifelong process that requires ongoing support and commitment, but with the right interventions and support, individuals can achieve and maintain a life free from substance abuse.
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Anxiety is a complex and often overwhelming emotional state characterised by feelings of fear, worry, and unease. It is a natural response to stress or perceived threats, but when it becomes persistent and interferes with daily life, it can be classified as an anxiety disorder. People with anxiety may experience a range of physical symptoms such as rapid heartbeat, sweaty palms, and shortness of breath, as well as psychological symptoms like excessive worrying, restlessness, and difficulty concentrating. Anxiety can significantly impact an individual's quality of life, relationships, and overall well-being.
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Anger management refers to the process of recognising, understanding, and effectively controlling anger and its associated emotions. Anger is a normal human emotion, but when it becomes frequent, intense, or uncontrolled, it can lead to negative consequences for both individuals and their relationships.
Anger management techniques aim to help individuals identify triggers, develop healthier ways to express and manage anger, and enhance communication and problem-solving skills. These techniques may include deep breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, cognitive restructuring, assertiveness training, and learning effective conflict resolution strategies. Anger management can be beneficial for individuals who struggle with anger-related issues, helping them reduce the intensity and frequency of angry outbursts, improve relationships, and enhance overall emotional well-being.
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Attachment refers to the deep emotional bond that forms between individuals, typically between caregivers and infants. It plays a fundamental role in human development and shapes our relationships throughout life.
Attachment is characterized by feelings of security, trust, and closeness. It provides a sense of safety and support, allowing individuals to explore the world and develop a secure base from which to venture out and seek comfort when needed.
Attachment patterns are often established early in life and can influence how individuals form and maintain relationships in adulthood. Secure attachment fosters healthy emotional connections, effective communication, and the ability to regulate emotions. Insecure attachment, such as anxious or avoidant attachment, can lead to difficulties in forming and maintaining relationships, fear of intimacy, and challenges in managing emotions.
Understanding attachment dynamics and working with psychologists can help individuals develop secure attachment styles, heal attachment wounds, and cultivate healthier relationships. By addressing attachment patterns, individuals can experience greater emotional well-being, improved social connections, and a sense of security in their relationships.
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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder that commonly begins in childhood and can persist into adulthood. It is characterised by a persistent pattern of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that can significantly impact daily functioning and overall well-being.
Individuals with ADHD may have difficulty sustaining attention, staying organised, and completing tasks. They may also display restless behaviour, fidgeting, and difficulty sitting still. Impulsivity can manifest as interrupting others, difficulty waiting their turn, and making hasty decisions. ADHD can affect academic performance, work productivity, and relationships. While the exact causes of ADHD are not fully understood, it is believed to involve a combination of genetic, environmental, and neurological factors. With appropriate support and strategies, individuals with ADHD can lead fulfilling and successful lives.
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Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterised by persistent challenges in social interaction, communication, and restricted or repetitive patterns of behaviour, interests, or activities. It is a spectrum disorder, which means it can range from mild to severe and affect individuals in different ways.
People with ASD may have difficulty with social interactions, such as making eye contact, understanding nonverbal cues, and developing friendships. They may also exhibit repetitive behaviours, intense interests in specific topics, and sensory sensitivities.
The rate of diagnosis of ASD in adolescence and adulthood has seen significant changes in recent years. Previously, ASD was primarily diagnosed in early childhood, but there is now recognition that many individuals, particularly females, may go undiagnosed until later in life. This delay in diagnosis can be attributed to various factors, including differences in how ASD manifests in males and females, as well as societal and diagnostic biases.
In terms of male presentation, ASD is historically more commonly diagnosed in males than females. Males with ASD often display more pronounced and stereotypical symptoms, such as repetitive behaviours and intense special interests. This might make their condition more noticeable and diagnostic criteria easier to meet. As a result, males are often diagnosed earlier in childhood.
On the other hand, the diagnostic process for females with ASD can be more challenging. Females may exhibit more subtle and camouflaged symptoms, leading to their difficulties being overlooked or misattributed. They may be better at masking social difficulties by imitating their peers, leading to a higher likelihood of social acceptance. Females with ASD often show greater emphasis on social communication and may have intense interests that align more with typical female interests. As a result, they are more likely to receive a diagnosis later in adolescence or adulthood.
Treatment for ASD typically involves a multi-faceted approach tailored to the individual's specific needs. While there is no cure for ASD, early and intensive intervention can significantly improve outcomes and quality of life. Behavioural and educational interventions, such as Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA), are commonly used to address social, communication, and behavioural challenges. ABA focuses on reinforcing positive behaviours and teaching new skills through structured and individualised therapy sessions. Speech therapy can assist individuals with ASD in developing and improving communication skills. Occupational therapy helps address sensory sensitivities and promotes the development of adaptive skills for daily living. Medication may be prescribed to manage co-occurring conditions, such as anxiety or attention difficulties, that often accompany ASD. It is essential to involve a multidisciplinary team of professionals, including psychologists, speech and occupational therapists, and educators, to create a comprehensive treatment plan that supports the unique needs of individuals with ASD. Ongoing support and interventions throughout the lifespan can help individuals with ASD reach their full potential and enhance their overall well-being.
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Behavioural issues can encompass a wide range of challenges, including disruptive behaviours, aggression, impulsivity, defiance, and difficulty managing emotions. These issues can significantly impact personal relationships, academic or professional performance, and overall well-being.
A psychologist can provide a supportive and non-judgmental environment where individuals can explore the underlying causes of their behavioural issues. Through therapy, psychologists can help individuals develop insight into their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and learn effective coping strategies and problem-solving skills. They can also work with individuals to identify triggers and develop strategies for self-regulation and impulse control.
Psychologists may employ various therapeutic approaches, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), behaviour modification techniques, or family therapy, depending on the specific needs and circumstances. By addressing behavioral issues in a therapeutic setting, individuals can gain a better understanding of themselves, develop healthier patterns of behavior, and improve their overall functioning and quality of life.
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Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), also known as body dysmorphia, is a mental health condition characterised by a persistent preoccupation with perceived flaws in one's appearance. Individuals with BDD have intense and distressing thoughts about their appearance, often focusing on minor or imagined defects that are not noticeable or are exaggerated to others. This preoccupation can lead to significant distress, impaired functioning, and avoidance of social situations.
People with BDD may engage in repetitive behaviours, such as excessive grooming, seeking reassurance, or comparing themselves to others, in an attempt to alleviate their distress. Treatment for BDD typically involves therapy, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT). The goal is to help individuals challenge their distorted thoughts, improve body image, and reduce the impact of BDD on their daily lives. Early intervention and support are crucial in managing and overcoming body dysmorphia.
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Communication is a fundamental aspect of human interaction and plays a vital role in establishing connections, expressing thoughts and emotions, and fostering understanding. Effective communication involves both verbal and non-verbal elements, including words, tone of voice, body language, and active listening. It is a dynamic process that requires clear expression, active listening, and empathy.
Good communication skills contribute to healthier relationships, improved teamwork, and conflict resolution. By being able to express oneself clearly and articulately, individuals can convey their needs, desires, and boundaries effectively. Skilled communicators also possess the ability to listen attentively, understand different perspectives, and respond empathetically. However, communication can sometimes be challenging, hindered by misunderstandings, cultural differences, or emotional barriers.
Psychologists can provide valuable guidance and support in developing effective communication skills. Through therapy, individuals can learn techniques to enhance communication, such as assertiveness training, conflict resolution strategies, and active listening exercises. By improving communication skills, individuals can foster stronger connections, resolve conflicts more effectively, and experience more fulfilling and meaningful interactions in both personal and professional domains.
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Depression is a serious mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It is more than just feeling sad or experiencing a temporary low mood. Depression is characterised by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a loss of interest or pleasure in activities that were once enjoyable. It can disrupt one's daily functioning, impacting relationships, school or work performance, and overall quality of life.
People with depression may also experience physical symptoms such as changes in appetite, sleep disturbances, and low energy levels. It is a complex condition with various biological, psychological, and environmental factors contributing to its onset. It is important for individuals experiencing symptoms of depression to seek help and professional support, as timely intervention can make a significant difference in their recovery.
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Eating disorders are serious mental health conditions characterised by abnormal eating behaviours and distorted attitudes towards food, weight, and body image. The most common types of eating disorders include anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, and binge eating disorder.
Anorexia nervosa involves severe restriction of food intake, resulting in significant weight loss and a distorted perception of one's body. Bulimia nervosa involves recurrent episodes of binge eating followed by compensatory behaviours such as self-induced vomiting or excessive exercise. Binge eating disorder involves consuming large quantities of food in a short period, accompanied by a lack of control and feelings of guilt or shame.
Eating disorders can have severe physical, emotional, and social consequences. Treatment for eating disorders needs to involve a multidisciplinary approach, including therapy (such as cognitive-behavioural therapy), nutritional counselling, medical monitoring, family therapy, and support groups. Early intervention and ongoing support are essential for recovery and restoring a healthier relationship with food and body image.
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Grief and loss are natural emotional responses to the experience of losing someone or something significant in our lives. It can occur in various forms, such as the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, divorce, the loss of a job, or the loss of a pet.
Grief is a complex process that involves a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, guilt, and confusion. It can also manifest physically, mentally, and socially, affecting sleep patterns, appetite, concentration, and relationships. The grieving process is unique to each individual, with no set timeline or predictable stages. It is important to allow oneself to grieve and to seek support from loved ones, support groups, or mental health professionals.
Over time, with self-care, understanding, and support, individuals can gradually adjust to their loss, find ways to honour the memory of what or who they have lost, and eventually find meaning and hope in their lives again.
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Adjustment disorders refer to a group of psychological conditions characterised by emotional and behavioural disturbances in response to a significant life stressor or change. These stressors can include major life transitions, such as moving house or schools, starting a new job, going through a divorce, or experiencing the loss of a loved one.
During these periods, individuals may struggle to cope and adapt, leading to symptoms such as sadness, anxiety, irritability, or difficulty concentrating. Adjustment disorders are different from other mental health conditions as they are directly linked to specific stressors and tend to be time limited. However, if left untreated, they can impair functioning and lead to further complications. Treatment for adjustment disorders often involves supportive therapy, counselling, and stress management techniques to help individuals navigate the challenges of life transitions and develop effective coping strategies. With appropriate support, individuals can successfully adjust to the life changes and regain a sense of well-being.
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Learning issues can manifest as difficulties in acquiring or processing information, retaining knowledge, or applying learned skills. These challenges can affect academic performance, self-esteem, and overall learning potential. We can conduct comprehensive assessments to identify specific learning difficulties and determine individual strengths and weaknesses. We can also provide tailored interventions and strategies to address learning challenges, such as attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, or executive functioning deficits.
Psychologists can help individuals develop effective study skills, organisation techniques, and time management strategies. They may utilise specialised interventions like cognitive training or assistive technology to enhance learning abilities. Additionally, psychologists can work with individuals, families, and educational professionals to create supportive learning environments and advocate for appropriate accommodations and resources.
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Mood disorders refer to a group of mental health conditions characterised by significant and persistent disturbances in mood. The two primary types of mood disorders are Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) and Bipolar Disorder.
Depression is characterised by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a loss of interest or pleasure in activities. It can cause significant impairment in daily functioning and quality of life.
Bipolar disorder involves episodes of depression alternating with periods of abnormally elevated mood known as mania or hypomania. These mood swings can be intense and disruptive, impacting personal relationships, work, and overall well-being.
Treatment for mood disorders often involves a combination of therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes. Psychotherapy, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) or interpersonal therapy (IPT) can help individuals identify and address negative thought patterns and improve coping skills. Medications, such as antidepressants or mood stabilisers, may be prescribed by psychiatrist or GP to manage symptoms. With proper diagnosis, treatment, and support, individuals with mood disorders can achieve symptom management, improved functioning, and an enhanced quality of life.
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Psychologists play a vital role in providing support through the National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS). They offer a range of services tailored to the unique needs of individuals with disabilities. Psychologists can conduct assessments to understand an individual's cognitive, emotional, and behavioural functioning, which helps in formulating appropriate support plans. They provide evidence-based interventions such as counselling, therapy, and behaviour management strategies to address mental health concerns, promote psychological well-being, and enhance adaptive skills.
Psychologists also work collaboratively with individuals, their families, and support teams to develop personalised goals and strategies that empower individuals to improve their overall quality of life. Through NDIS, psychologists contribute to the holistic support and development of individuals with disabilities, helping them navigate challenges, build resilience, and achieve their potential.
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Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by the presence of persistent and intrusive thoughts, images, or urges, known as obsessions, which lead to repetitive behaviours, known as compulsions. People with OCD often experience significant distress and anxiety as a result of their obsessions, and they engage in compulsive behaviours as a way to alleviate or prevent these distressing thoughts or to reduce their anxiety. These compulsions can range from repetitive actions such as excessive hand-washing, checking, or counting, to mental rituals like repeated prayers or mental reassurances. OCD can significantly impact a person's daily functioning, relationships, and overall quality of life.
Psychologists who specialize in OCD are trained to employ evidence-based therapies, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which is considered the gold standard treatment for OCD. CBT for OCD typically involves two main components: exposure and response prevention (ERP) and cognitive restructuring. ERP involves gradually exposing individuals to situations or triggers that provoke their obsessions while preventing them from engaging in their usual compulsive behaviours. Through repeated exposures, individuals learn to tolerate the distressing thoughts and reduce their reliance on compulsions. Cognitive restructuring aims to identify and challenge unhelpful or distorted thoughts related to OCD, helping individuals develop more realistic and adaptive thinking patterns.
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Phobias are intense and irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or activities. They can significantly impact a person's daily life, causing distress, avoidance behaviours, and interference with normal functioning. Psychologists play a crucial role in helping individuals overcome their phobias and regain control over their lives.
Through various therapeutic approaches, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), psychologists can help individuals understand the underlying causes of their phobias and develop effective coping strategies. Exposure therapy is a commonly used technique where individuals gradually and safely confront their fears in a controlled and supportive environment. This process helps desensitize individuals to the feared object or situation, leading to a reduction in anxiety and avoidance behaviours.
Psychologists also work with individuals to identify and challenge negative thought patterns and beliefs associated with their phobias, helping them develop more realistic and adaptive thinking. With the guidance and support of a psychologist, individuals with phobias can gradually overcome their fears, regain confidence, and lead a more fulfilling and unrestricted life.
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Relationships are a fundamental aspect of human life, but they can also be complex and challenging at times. Psychologists play a crucial role in helping individuals navigate and improve their relationships. Whether it's romantic partnerships, family dynamics, friendships, or work relationships, psychologists provide a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their thoughts, emotions, and patterns of interaction. They can help individuals develop effective communication skills, manage conflicts, and establish healthy boundaries. Psychologists also assist in identifying and addressing underlying issues that may be impacting the relationship, such as unresolved trauma, trust issues, or ineffective coping mechanisms. Through evidence-based therapies, psychologists can facilitate open and honest dialogue, enhance understanding, and promote constructive problem-solving. They provide guidance, tools, and strategies to strengthen emotional bonds, foster intimacy, and promote overall relationship satisfaction. By working with a psychologist, individuals can gain insight into their relationship patterns, develop healthier relationship dynamics, and cultivate more fulfilling connections with others.
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Self-esteem and confidence are vital components of one's mental well-being and overall sense of self. Self-esteem refers to an individual's overall evaluation of their worth and value, while confidence relates to a belief in one's abilities and competence. Psychologists can play a significant role in helping individuals enhance their self-esteem and confidence. we can provide a supportive and non-judgmental space for individuals to explore and understand the underlying factors contributing to low self-esteem or lack of confidence.
Various therapeutic approaches are employed, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), to help individuals challenge negative self-perceptions, identify and modify self-defeating thoughts, and develop more positive and realistic self-beliefs. We can help guide individuals in setting achievable goals, developing coping strategies, and building resilience. Psychologists also help individuals recognize and celebrate their strengths, fostering a sense of self-acceptance and self-worth. Psychologists can help empower individuals to develop a healthier self-image, cultivate self-compassion, and build the confidence to pursue their goals and aspirations.
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Sleep disorders are conditions that significantly disrupt a person's ability to get adequate and restful sleep, leading to various negative impacts on their physical and mental well-being. Seeing a psychologist can help identify and address underlying psychological factors that may contribute to sleep disturbances, such as anxiety, stress, trauma, or unhealthy sleep habits. They employ evidence-based therapies, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), which focuses on improving sleep behaviours, modifying distorted sleep-related thoughts, and implementing relaxation techniques.
Psychologists can also assist in managing co-existing mental health conditions that may affect sleep, such as depression or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). By working collaboratively with a psychologist, individuals with sleep disorders can gain insights into the factors affecting their sleep, develop effective coping strategies, and establish healthy sleep hygiene routines. With the guidance and support, individuals can experience improved sleep quality, better daytime functioning, and an overall enhancement in their quality of life.
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Stress is a common experience that arises from various demands and pressures in life, and it can have significant effects on one's physical and mental well-being. By providing a supportive and non-judgmental environment, psychologists can help individuals explore the sources of their stress and identify the impact it has on their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. They assist in developing personalised strategies to reduce stress levels, such as relaxation techniques, time management skills, and problem-solving approaches.
Psychologists also help individuals challenge and reframe unhelpful thinking patterns that contribute to stress, promoting more positive and adaptive coping mechanisms. Additionally, they may employ evidence-based therapies, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), to address underlying psychological factors that contribute to chronic stress, such as anxiety or perfectionism. Individuals are empowered to develop resilience, enhance self-care practices, and build effective stress management skills, ultimately improving overall well-being and quality of life.
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Trauma-related disorders encompass a group of psychological conditions that can develop in response to experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. The most well-known trauma-related disorder is post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). PTSD is characterised by intrusive and distressing memories, nightmares, flashbacks, avoidance of triggers, negative changes in mood and cognition, and heightened arousal.
Other trauma-related disorders include acute stress disorder, adjustment disorder, and complex PTSD. These disorders can significantly impact an individual's daily functioning, relationships, and overall quality of life. Symptoms may include intense anxiety, hypervigilance, emotional numbing, difficulty concentrating, and disrupted sleep. Treatment for trauma-related disorders often involves a combination of therapies, such as trauma-focused cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).
The goal is to help individuals process and integrate the traumatic experiences, develop healthy coping mechanisms, and regain a sense of safety and control. Early intervention and ongoing support are crucial for individuals with trauma-related disorders to heal and restore their well-being.
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Work issues can encompass a wide range of challenges individuals may face in their professional lives. These issues can include workplace stress, burnout, conflicts with colleagues or supervisors, lack of motivation, career dissatisfaction, and difficulty managing work-life balance.
We can play a crucial role in helping individuals navigate and address these work-related challenges by providing a supportive and confidential space for individuals to explore their concerns, emotions, and goals related to their work. Therapy can also help individuals develop effective coping strategies to manage stress, enhance resilience, and improve work performance.
Psychologists can also assist in identifying and addressing underlying factors contributing to work-related challenges, such as low self-esteem, perfectionism, or communication difficulties as well as provide guidance in career exploration, decision-making, and professional development. By working with a psychologist, individuals can gain insights, develop new skills, and find strategies to overcome work-related issues, leading to improved job satisfaction, productivity, and overall well-being.